How can you hide from your life?
Sometimes you want to hide. The question of "What? "Many do not even worth it. From such a life. Take cover a, so that no one will find. Yes, that's the trouble - can not run away from yourself, do not go away and do not you fly away. Is that in the extreme step... But that does not want to.
And yet, when there is a problem, you can find a solution. Quick and uncomplicated. For example, to pretend that everything is fine! And those who have already started to make an appearance, improved indefinitely. In the case of abstraction and rejection of reality there is no limit. Some people can successfully practice the rest of his life. It is becoming a happier life from it? It is not known. But, because of the popularity of this option is easier, apparently, is.
only where it is easier? And who is better? And as it reaches people? I have noticed some particularly popular options...
Favourite places and recipes from a life of traveling
Option punchy, very effective < But - quickly and actively influence the brain response, behavior, perception. It's simple: accepted - was dropped. However, to decide on such a drastic step is difficult. The consequences of it was too frightening. You can tell the total. That is why the recipe is only suitable for very extreme cases, when before his life is no longer the case.
a simple version: computer hobbies (games, Internet), television and other light pictures . You can head to delve into characters' lives, or simply a parallel world and forget about her. And there is nothing you will not be for it. Golf activities - extensive. I'm tired of a game (TV series), passes into another. And diversity - please, and a storm of emotion. All the fun, delicious. It is said, even some healthy people are sucked into a way that can be hard to come off. Straight-after cure for this account. Simply - do not come off. That is not to start.
In general, for their own escapes fits all. It was a fantasy and at least some, minimal drag. What is addiction, the easier it is to escape. Sometimes the move and do not define you or run away, on the contrary, in the search. First - utopian, the second - a noble. And from the looks the same.
I've been myself, for example, came up with one of these subtle forms. Could hide such a way that does not undermine. It is called: working on a . Yes, do not you see I am changing, have endeavored to improve? Soon become a different person! And a need to speak well and often. And then suddenly zakradutsya doubt, think that something is wrong here? Even, God forbid, you begin to understand, but fall out with a bang of his alleged improvements...
One day, I still found myself in the illusion of working on them. His thoughts, ideas, and reading books, thoughts, dreams and memories of success and is constantly escaping from reality. It seems that hide from the experience - and getting better all!
But the paradox is that it is impossible to achieve anything in life, not being present in it. Must always live in each moment, here and now. How can I be, for example, a happy, if I do not? As you can fall in love with me or how can I love? Am I able to give in such a condition to their children going to heat or important in life?
Exactly, that when a person is in another dimension, a clock analyzes the current situation, which must live on - then it will not achieve anything.
I, in turn, not just hidden, and ran headlong from himself, from his experience. What I received as a result? First painful hit his head on the asphalt. Then he stood stunned, shook herself, and decided not to run away. To fall is not like it.
But with time and was not running from anything. After all, passed, adopted, established. And so happily. What I am infinitely happy, and and what you want.
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